Monday, December 1, 2008

FALLING IN LOVE!

Since our anniversary is coming soon as according to Baby gwapo Nate...well this are the thoughts that i think before i met him and how i risk to love someone who is very far away from me as to love is to risk. Falling inlove is not a game, you invest emotions. You are open to be hurt.

When you think of your past love, you may view
it as a failure. But when you find a new love,
you view the past as a teacher. In the game of
love, it doesn't really matter who won or who
lost. What is important is you know when to
hold on and when to let go.

You know you really love someone when you
want him or her to be happy. Even if their
happiness means that you're not part of it.
Everything happens for the best. If the person
you love doesn't love you back, dont be afraid
to love someone else again, for you'll never
know unless you give it a try.

You'll never love a person you love unless you
risk for love. Love strives in hurting. If you
don't get hurt, you don't learn h ow to love.
Love doesn't hurt all the time, though the
hurting is still there to test you, to help you grow.

Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it's
called falling in love because you don't force
yourself to fall. You just fall.

You cannot finish a book without closing its
chapters. If you want to go on, then you have
to leave the past as you turn the pages. Love
is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a
single caress. It is a lifetime venture in which
we are always learning, discovering and
growing. The greatest irony of love is letting
go when you need to hold on and holding on
when you need to let go. We lose someone
we love only when we are destined to find
someone else; one who can love us even
more than we can love ourselves.

On falling out of love, take some time to heal
and then get beckon the horse. But don't ever
make the same mistake of riding the same one
t hat threw you the first time. To love is to risk
rejection; to live is to risk dying, to hope is to
risk failure. But risk must be taken because the
greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing. To
reach for another is to risk involvement, to
expose your feelings is to expose your true
self. To love is to risk not to be loved in return.

How to define love: fall but do not stumble, be
constant but not too persistent, share and
never be unfair, understand and try not to
demand, hurt but never keep the pain.

Love is like a knife. It can stab the heart or it
can carve wonderful images into the soul that
always last for a lifetime. Love is supposed to
be the most wonderful feeling. It should
inspire you and give you joy and strength. But
sometimes the things that give you joy can also
hurt you in the end.

Loving people means giving them the freedom
who they choose to be and where they choose
to be. For all the heartaches and the tears, for
gloomy days and fruitless years, you should
give thanks for you know, that they were the
things that have helped you grow.

Loving someone means giving him the
freedom to find his way; whether it leads
towards you or away from you. Love is a
painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no
matter how scary or painful, for only then that
you'll experience the fullness of humanity and
that is love.

Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with
desire, and tear you apart. Only love can make
you cry and only love knows why. If you're not
ready to cry, if you're not ready to take the risk,
if you're not ready to feel the pain, then you're
not ready to fall in love. There was a time in
our lives when we became afraid to fall in love.
Because every time we do, we get hurt.

Then I figured... That's why it's called

FALLING IN LOVE!

1 comment:

Poopsie said...

WOW, you have so much to share.
Maybe, you will share you thoughts about books. You can check out what I mean at my blog. :)