The Art of Letting Go

One of the reasons why people get so sentimental
It is because, memories are the only things that don't change..
When everything else does..
There are things in life that you cant hold on forever,
no matter how much you fight for it.
Sometimes destiny isn't always good, it becomes playful

When you met someone you learned to love, you thought
that it was destiny who made your paths cross.
But what if making your paths cross is just a part
of the game that the playful destiny create?


Making you realize in the end that the preson you thought
that was destined for you wasn't really meant to stay...
But only destined to make you feel love and leave
you when you've already fallen.

It's not easy to state a reason when you decide to leave your love.
Some might think it's just an excuse...some might not actually believe...
Some will blame you, some might even be mad at you

What they don't see is the fact that...
it hurts you even more to hurt someone who doesn't deserve to be hurt..
especially when you cant actually state the reason
why you have to leave....

You can never own something that was never yours..
So lets stop gripping on things we expect to last forever..

Nothing lasts forever
Forever is a lie
everything is transitory.

So while you have something in your hand,
put in mind that its just borrowed...

So that someday when its gone, it wont take you eternity just to let it go...
When your feelings get strong for someone, its always wise to stop for a while
and give your heart...a time to breathe..

A time to use your mind to weigh the situation based on reason not on emotion
Because the saddest thing that can happen is when one fall in love while
the other wants nothing more than friendship....

Love can sometimes be magic...
But magic can sometimes be an illusion

There are times when I wish that I was limites to certain emotions
So that I'll never have to experience pain, never feel betrayed or disappointed, and never get my fragile heart broken

But the same thing means that I'll never know how it feels to love
and be loved in return ...
The thought o it kind of scares me..
To have a heart that's whole but numb or a heart that's broken but real..

Someday we'll all be looking back to those days we learned to love, get hurt, cry and fight..
Maybe when that time comes, we'll be laughing at our old dumb selves...
Realizing how stupid we were to stand up for thins we knew weren't really meant for us
But I guess learning takes times, and mistakes make one's journey fun..

Life is what we make it
Love makes the world go round.
So let's live, love, and take whatever pain it brings....
though it's hard to wait around for something that I know will never happen...
It's harder to stop when I know it's everything I've always wanted..

But you know what??
I'm glad
I'm glad it happened..
We're good friends...
And i'm thankful for that....
Take care always my dear friend..
I'm just here..

“FREEING THE HEART, MIND AND THE SOUL”

from the past:

• heart-broken

life never stops when your heart gets broken. life is too wonderful, for you to just stop on your tracks. – don't be bitter, keep moving! but, don't rush yourself into finding new love again; just to let that someone take you away from the pains that you are feeling. (heal yourself first-completely!) for, no matter what you do, there would always be a mark in your heart. a "scar" that will always remind you of all that you've been through! but don't feel bad. because, it only means that: "once then, you've had something beautiful and special with you, but for some reasons, it's been taken away from you…"

• being hurt

why do we get hurt? the answer is simple. it is because we love. then, why do we still love, if in the end, we'll just get hurt? my answer is this: in love there are risks you have to take, and getting hurt is one of them. me, I love because i'm not scared of getting hurt. it is not my concern. but, giving love! after all, it is the very essence of loving. right? to "give" love rather than, to "take" love. some people I know, when they get into a relationship, it's sad that they are preparing themselves already to get hurt, when they should first be preparing their hearts on loving that person. me, I am preparing myself to give love! more than getting hurt…yes, I still get hurt in the end – but it's my choice! at least, I got hurt only because, I knew that, I had loved. as it goes: " when you love, you have just given them he power to hurt you." …true.

• hurting

leaving someone you love, doesn't have to be so hurting! for, pains have been inflicted, and the heart had suffered sorrows and grief. so, why drive deeper stake in the heart? …to see the wound open for deeper cuts, then bleed to death? "if you'll have to kill me a hundred times, i'll live again a thousand more!" *people often hate those who make them feel their own inferiorities! *

• letting go and moving on

letting go and moving on doesn't really have to mean, leaving everything behind you. because, you take with you,*lessons* you've learned from the past experience, that would help you become better the next time. You also, take with you, *memories* you'll cherish forever in your heart – good or bad. because, it is something that had grown and become part of who you are. And it will never depart from you… "love brings great beauty to life, also great sadness that sometimes, you can't be sure if it is a fair exchange!