“FREEING THE HEART, MIND AND THE SOUL”

from the past:

• heart-broken

life never stops when your heart gets broken. life is too wonderful, for you to just stop on your tracks. – don't be bitter, keep moving! but, don't rush yourself into finding new love again; just to let that someone take you away from the pains that you are feeling. (heal yourself first-completely!) for, no matter what you do, there would always be a mark in your heart. a "scar" that will always remind you of all that you've been through! but don't feel bad. because, it only means that: "once then, you've had something beautiful and special with you, but for some reasons, it's been taken away from you…"

• being hurt

why do we get hurt? the answer is simple. it is because we love. then, why do we still love, if in the end, we'll just get hurt? my answer is this: in love there are risks you have to take, and getting hurt is one of them. me, I love because i'm not scared of getting hurt. it is not my concern. but, giving love! after all, it is the very essence of loving. right? to "give" love rather than, to "take" love. some people I know, when they get into a relationship, it's sad that they are preparing themselves already to get hurt, when they should first be preparing their hearts on loving that person. me, I am preparing myself to give love! more than getting hurt…yes, I still get hurt in the end – but it's my choice! at least, I got hurt only because, I knew that, I had loved. as it goes: " when you love, you have just given them he power to hurt you." …true.

• hurting

leaving someone you love, doesn't have to be so hurting! for, pains have been inflicted, and the heart had suffered sorrows and grief. so, why drive deeper stake in the heart? …to see the wound open for deeper cuts, then bleed to death? "if you'll have to kill me a hundred times, i'll live again a thousand more!" *people often hate those who make them feel their own inferiorities! *

• letting go and moving on

letting go and moving on doesn't really have to mean, leaving everything behind you. because, you take with you,*lessons* you've learned from the past experience, that would help you become better the next time. You also, take with you, *memories* you'll cherish forever in your heart – good or bad. because, it is something that had grown and become part of who you are. And it will never depart from you… "love brings great beauty to life, also great sadness that sometimes, you can't be sure if it is a fair exchange!